After almost 4 months of dating, my boyfriend broke up with me today. I'm sure you really don't care, but i just need to get this off my chest. I never felt this way with anyone but him and he told me countless times how much he loved me and would never leave me. Today however, i knew something was up and tried calling him only to have him break up with me. He's going away in December and a year afterwards. I would've dealt with it, but then his mom gave him the idea of going to Afghanistan when he's done. So he told me, "I don't want to hurt you in the future.." Did he think i couldn't handle it? I can see why he would want to do this but i